Who are your real friends?

Have you ever thought about it how many people would actually risk their own life for you?  Besides my family I know there is two people in my life that would do anything for me.  That’s what a true friend is.  There are so many people out there that may act like your friend but really they are sitting there talking crap about you right behind your back.  Well when I first began my freshman year I was hanging around the wrong crowd of girls that thought they were better than everyone else.  During that time I started to act the same way.  I realized that I had lost a lot of friends but boys were starting to notice me a little more.  We all sat at the same lunch table, when one of our friends would get up the girls would always have something negative to say about them.  I knew when I got up from the lunch table that they were also talking negative about me.  Girls like this seem to have more problems with their selves and their lives so that’s why they choose to point out the flaws on other people.  Yes it is a sad thing but a lot of girls seem to go through this problem.  I hear my cousin telling me about her friends and it seems to sound like the same problem that I went to in high school.  If you have a friend or family member  that is going through this then have a talk with them and ask them the questing, who do you think your friends really are?

Right choices

There are many mistakes that I’ve made in my life just like many other teens now days.  Making the right decision plays a huge role in a teens life because you have your whole future to make the decisions that teens make now days.  Sex, drugs, alcohol, pier pressuring, and bullying are really big in today’s world.  Keeping children and teens out of these troubles is difficult.  Making smart decisions to do the right thing is very important because, all of things could ruin your whole future.  Even if you do have a good head on your shoulders and you make one of these bad decisions that could be your whole life that is taken from you.  Drinking can drive you to do terrible things that you wouldn’t normally do when you are sober such as driving, sex, and other drugs.  There are so many teens now days that are going down the wrong path and we need to take a step up and help these people.  Sometimes when their parents are doing the wrong thing the child may think that it is ok for them to do the same,  and that’s why a lot of children are headed in the wrong direction now days.  Parents play a huge role in a child’s life that’s why they need to try their hardest to be a good role model for them.  Keeping a good grade average and making sure that you stay out of trouble and make sure you are hanging out with the right people is a step in the right direction.

Mother's role

Have you ever seen a mother that tried to act like a teen or child?  Or do happen to have a mother that acts younger than she really is or tries to be your friend?  Well I’ve had plenty of friends that were in that situation, and to be honest I feel extremely bad for them.  Girls don’t want a mother that associates with her friends and tries to be like them.  A mother is supposed to be a role model and play a very mature role in a daughter’s life.  Mother’s have a special place in a child’s life, it all starts with the bonding with pregnancy.  They should try to spend as much time with their children as possible but when it comes to mother trying to be friends with their children they will start to get the idea that they will get whatever they want and later down the road become spoiled.  When you raise you child to think that they can get whatever they want you have gotten yourself in a terrible situation.  When you are beginning motherhood you have to set you rules for your children at a young age so when they grow up they will understand and abide by the rules.  I wanted to touch on this subject so I could point out how excellent of a mother my mom was to me.   No matter how many fights we’ve been in I now realize how much better I understand things and walking in the right path and am not getting myself into any trouble.  We should take time to cherish and dedicate our time for our mother’s just like what they do for us.

Finding the right guy

Millions of girls are always out there looking for the right guy.  But some put themselves down so low and date total losers because they think there is no hope for them in finding the right guy. Well I believe that there is a right person for everyone out there in this world. Girls need to find a guy that will treat them like charming guys in romance movies. You know where the guy picks you up from your house, opens up the door for you and takes you to an expensive restaurant and takes you to a movie. A guy that will pay your way completely and tell you how beautiful you look. A guy that will show you off to the world and show that he is so proud to call you his girl, make you feel like you’re a one of a kind of girl not like others.  A type of guy that will un expectedly be his complete self around and you can wake up next to him and him still call you beautiful when your hair is in a messy bun and your make up is running all over your face from the night before. But especially a guy that will love you for you  , accept your flaws and most of all respect you as a woman and treats you the way a woman should be treated and that’s with RESPECT<3

Girls & Insecurity

When I was about seven my parents went through a divorce and it was very hard on me.  I never really got over it, even today I still wish that my parents were still together.  I didn’t know what to do so the way I coped with it is that I stopped eating.  Growing up I always thought I was fatter than most of the   kids in my class.   I thought that if I stopped eating and weighed myself everyday that it would help me take off all that weight.   My family was so worried about me and didn’t know what was wrong.   It was an awful, sickening moment and I realized that instead of being a happy cheerful teen I was a 12-year-old anorexic.  I kept telling my mom that there was nothing wrong when it was clearly noticeable that I was losing a lot of weight.  Before I knew it I was just skin and bones, I looked like I had just stepped out of the holocaust.  If you think you may be suffering from an eating disorder seek professional help immediately instead of keeping it from your parents like I did, it’s only going to make things worse.  In situations like this parents may feel helpless, but understand that this disease greatly affects their teen’s life and must be dealt with no matter what.  If it is no taken care of right away your teen could be at risk of death.  Seeing my family cry and worry made me really think, is not eating  really worth it?

Been There Done That

It seems to be that all the nice guys are single, and all the jerks tend to get all the ladies. Why is that? There must be more reasons out there why women are left crying their eyes out because their boyfriends hurt them once again.  Well I’ve been through this situation and I seemed to keep going back.  I kept giving myself hope that things were going to get better but the outcome was the same every chance I gave it.   The guy I was with for a year told me he loved me everyday of my life, but his actions proved himself wrong. ” I Love You” is only three words that don’t mean anything to a guy but mean the world to a girl.  I’ve been called every name in the book and still went back to him.  Women should be smarter and not depend on  a guy to take care of them for the rest of their life.  But it does take a strong woman to delete his number, letters,  texts, and  unwanted memories of him.  One who makes you feel inferior about yourself is not the right person for you.  Most of the time they are putting you down because they feel bad about themselves and are bored with their lives. Never  listen to those three words unless you know that they really mean it with all their heart and prove it to you with the actions that they make.   Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.  I am insane!